Sex Tips

A Pleasure Guide For Men

By Lauren Young

COPYRIGHT © 2014 BY OSL PUBLISHING

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Blindfold your partner

Give Instructions

Massage

Play Dress Up

Talk about fantasies

Play a Game

Dirty Talk

Try Out a New Position

Try out a Cock Ring

Try out a new location

Introduction

Sex is an act that couples can enjoy together, but over time it may seem like the act is getting a little bit stale and you may not know how to make it all better. You could be tired of doing a lot of the same things over and over again or you just may not know how to ask for something new to be tried out because you are worried about ruining the relationship that you already have. This guidebook is going to help you as a man figure out how to make sex so much better for you and your partner so that sex can be an experience that you both enjoy.

There are a lot of different books out there that discuss sex and how to make sex better, but most of them are geared towards women making their men happy. They talk about how to drive your man wild or how to get your man to orgasm faster, but these can be irrelevant and kind of awkward for the man who is looking to please his partner in life. This guidebook is meant to help you out with this issue. It is going to help you to use the right tips in order to make sex better not just for yourself but also for your partner and for you both as a couple.

There are ten main hints and tips that are going to be discussed in this book and you are sure to find a couple of them that work out the best for your needs. You can start out trying one or two of them out and see if they work out for you. You can then add in more on occasion in order to always make your sex exciting and fun. There are also some variations of the different tips so that you are able to get it to work out the best for your needs. Take this book with you whenever you are ready to get started on having a better sex life today.

There are many books out there that discuss what you are supposed to do as a woman in order to please your man or to make sex a more enjoyable act for both of you. But what is the man supposed to do? Are there some tricks or secretes that you as a man are supposed to try out in order to make the woman feel better and enjoy her time with you. There is not as much information available in the world about this portion and it can leave men lost and confused as to what they are to do in order to please their woman. This can be difficult because men are just as interested in pleasing their partners and having fun with them as women are, but most of the information that is out there is going to be misleading and can cause a lot of issues in the long run.

Now you have the source that you need in order to have a great sex life with your partner if you are a man. You do not have to rely on the false information that has been given to you and which can actually ruin the fun that you are having with your partner. This book is going to be separated up into the different tips that you can try out with your partner in order to get the best results. Try a few today and see how amazing your sex life can be.

Blindfold your partner

The sexual pleasure that your partner is feeling with you is going to have a lot of different dimensions. It is not just about the act of having sex, you are going to need to engage other parts of the body in order to get the best results. The most important organ for sex in the human body is their brains. When one of the senses becomes hindered the other senses, with the help of the brain, are going to work hard in order to compensate for this loss. For example, someone who is deaf is going to have higher sense of touch, vibrations, smell, and sight. Just because you or your partner are not blind or deaf does not mean that you are not able to use these to your advantage. Simply by putting a blindfold on your partner, you are going to increase the other senses that she is feeling. She is not going to know where you are located or what you will do next which is going to create a higher anticipation for sex. It teases her and gets her hot and ready much easier than you would be able to do without the blindfold. Take some time to tease her before having sex.

Give Instructions

If you have been with your partner for a long time, you might feel like you know all of the ways that you can please your partner and that there are no ways that you are going to be able to improve. This is something that is not often very true and it is a good idea to take some time to explore together to find out what you would like to try that is new and what might not be working. You should get together with your partner and discus some of the different things that you have never tried before in the past but you would like to start trying out now. You can have a couple of things but then each of you can pick one or two of the things that the other partner chose and then try them out. You both will get to try out something that is new that might make sex amazing.

Massage

One of the best ways in order to make sex better for the other partner is to use sensual touch. This is because it is considered one of the highly relaxing and sexy things that you will be able to do for your partner. Your body is often going to be tense from all of the things that are going on in your life and this tenseness is going to make it really difficult for the flow of energy, including the sexual energy, to go through where it needs to be. Giving your partner a sensual and relaxing massage is able to relax them so that they are able to release that sexual energy that you want. The only difference between a sensual massage and a deeply relaxing massage is just going to be the touch so you will have to be careful about this; you do not want your partner to get so relaxed that she is able to fall asleep before you have sex. The best thing to do is use a firm touch with some sensory feather light caresses. This can help to relax the major muscles in the back and the shoulders before you work down the body. You can even try out the feet and the hands to get more nerves.

Play Dress Up

This is kind of like trying out role play with  your partner and it can create a great effect in the both of you that is going to make the sexual act even more fun. Some people are going to find that the role playing is really easy to do while others have more difficulties. If you and your partner are able to step out of their roles of being yourself you are going to find a fun way to give the permission that is needed to behave in a new and exciting way in order to have better sex. Playing the role of a different person during sex is a great way to give your partner a few new sensations and to try out things that you have never tried out before. This can turn the anxiousness that comes from trying out something new into a fun time that you both enjoy. Often the woman is the one who is going to do the dressing up before they enjoy the experience more and they often have more of the resources of outfits in order to try, but it is possible for you to dress up as well.

Talk about fantasies

Sometimes you might find that the simple thing that you need to do in order to have more fun with sex is to talk about the fantasies that you would like to do with your partner. This is a form of sex play that is going to open up the lines of communication that you have with your partner. This is a great thing to have open with your partner but it is also going to help you to learn more about your partner and your partner is going to learn a little bit more about you. In fact, you might be a little bit surprised at some of the things that your partner says, but you will have the chance to say some of your fantasies as well. You should keep this talking on the light side; it is just something that is supposed to be fun and sexy at the same time, not something that is going to freak or scare your partner. You should start out with your clothes on and just talking about things in a conversational tone. You can always turn it into more of a game later on if you both choose.

Play a Game

Sex is something that is supposed to be fun for both partners who are involved. One of the ways that you will be able to make the whole thing a lot more fun is to turn it into a game or to play a game ahead of time. You could grab a pack of cards and play a game of strip poker. This is going to help increase the anticipation that can make the sex so much better than you would imagine. You might feel like this is just something that you would have done while in high school, but if it is played in the right way it can be a game of seduction for both parties. When you are both almost naked, you can start to play the really fun part. You could have the loser do an act that the winner wants and then add on time limits in order to make the game of seduction last even longer; in the end you will both want to be the winner and the loser until the act has been done. You can choose any game that you want as long as it results in a winner and a loser. You can even use this time to have the loser try out something in a new way that you have never tried out before.

Strip poker is just one of the games that you will be able to try out with your partner, but if neither of you know how to play this game or if you can come up with another game that might be just as fun, they you should go ahead and try it out. Make sure that the rules are stated out clearly in the beginning and that you are both getting some pleasure out of it and you will be surprised at the results.

Dirty Talk

Doing some form of dirty talk is something that has turned on people for many years and it is going to continue doing this because it is able to use a talent that most other sex play isn’t able to, which is words. Because the brain is considered the largest sexual organ, it is important to stimulate it if you want your partner to have the best sex possible. People are going to respond to the spoken word without even thinking about it, especially if someone is using their names. The spoken word has the ability to evoke blood flow, sensations, and emotions to various regions just depending on the topic that is at hand. This is going to work in your favor quite a bit when you are trying to have sex. Talking dirty is going to work great because women are really susceptible to what they are hearing in their ears. The only issue is that this form of talking is an art form and a lot of people do not know how to do it or are uncomfortable with using it with their partner because they are worried that they are going to sound stupid. It is possible to teach yourself how to better talk dirty to your partner so that you are able to increase the pleasure for both partners.

In order to make dirty talk work better for your sex, you should start off with some neutral dirty talk subjects. You can say how good you are feeling inside of her, how you are enjoying the act of sex with her, and what you would like to do with her next. It is important to not get too carried away during this section, but learn how to just let it all flow out of you. It is true that a lot of people find that dirty talk is really daunting in the beginning especially if you are not used to do it. You need to learn how she is going to respond to what you say to her. This kind of talk is also going to come under the category of encouragement which means that when she sees that you are enjoying something than she is going to do is more often. The rawness of your sexual passion with the use of dirty talk is why it can work out so effectively.

One thing to keep in mind is that you should watch out for the swearing. Of course some swearing comes with dirty talk, you should not do too much of the name calling or swearing or you might succeed in turning your partner off. You should try to stick with the positive words and try to keep the insult words out of the conversation. You should also watch what you call her different body parts as well. Basically, you should start out slowly and make sure that your partner is able to handle the dirty talk before you get started.

Try Out a New Position

Over time, you have probably fallen into a rut of how to have sex. You know which ways work for you both to have an orgasm and you will use those over and over again. This isn’t a bad thing, at least you put in the effort to make sure that she is happy and satisfied, but it can get pretty boring over time. You use these positions because you already know that they are the ones that are going to work the best for you. But how do you know a different position is not going to work if you never take the time to try it out. Any new position that you try is going to need a high level of arousal in order to work out properly and not ruin the mood, so you will need to take the time to find the perfect moment to strike a new pose when you know that she is aroused and ready for it. There is really no limit to the different ways that you can have sex as long as you and your partner are up to it. This means that you are going to be able to use your imagination and come up with many new ways that you can try out. Simply changing the location that you are doing sex is going to change the position that you are doing so you could consider this as well if you are unsure of a new way to try out. For example, having sex on the top of a washing machine is going to be different than doing it on a table, a beanbag, or a bench. Try out a few new ways with your partner and see which ones work out the best for you both.

This is something that should be an open discussion between you and your partner. You do not have to be the only one who is coming up with the list of new positions to try. Of course, if you have a couple of ideas that you have heard of and would like to try out, you should make sure to mention them and discuss them with your partner. But you also need to take the time to discuss with your partner which positions they might be interested in trying out. You might be interested to find out whether some of the positions that you want to try will be the same ones that your partner wants to try too. This can be a great way that you can get started because you both want to try it out without feeling bad. On the other hand, you both might have a couple of positions that you want to try that the other one had not even considered. You could agree to try out one position from each other’s lists in order to make things really interesting. It is up to the two of you how you would like to go through this project, just make sure that the lines of communication are kept open.

Try out a Cock Ring

This might be something that is difficult for you to try out the first time, but it can do wonders for your partner if you want them to stay aroused and enjoy the experience more. The use of a cock ring is so that you are slowing down the drain of blood out of your erection so that you are able to stay harder for much longer. The harder you are able to keep your penis the more you will be able to stimulate the inside of a woman. When compared to a penis that is getting soft around the edges, you are going to be able to please her a lot better. Cock rings are usually not that expensive and they are not difficult to look at, it is more just getting used to the idea. They are often used to ensure that you are maintaining your pace without faltering when you are trying to get better sex with your partner and it is going to be very pleasing to your partner.

Try out a new location

Sex in a different location is something that can instantly make your sex life more exciting. Even if you are not doing anything that is different or trying out a new position, just making sure that you try and have sex in a different location can make all of the difference. You can take your partner on a drive to a secluded area where you can be left alone and have some fun. If you both feel up to it, you might find that a public place with just a little privacy can add a little bit of risk to the occasion and change it all up also. Try a different room in your own home, go to a friend’s home during a party and have sex there or even just do it in the back of a car like you might have done in high school can make it really interesting. There are a million different places that you can consider when you are trying to change it up with your sex life and sometimes that is all that you need in order to make things a lot more interesting.

This is just a short list of the things that you can try out in order to spice up your sex life. It is not just up to the woman to please the man; the man is going to have to take a stand in order to please his partner as well. The issue comes with the idea in society that the man is supposed to be the one who is confident and secure and will have all of the answers when it comes to pleasing his partner and having amazing sex. This can make many men feel inadequate because they are unsure about sex or they might not have all of the experience that other men do so they will become worried. When they try to find the information that is needed in order to feel better and get through the sex to make it the most amazing for their partner possible, they might find that this information just is not available. This can cause a lot of issues but with the help of this guidebook you will be able to get the help that you need in order for you and your partner to have amazing sex together and create even more fun between the two of you.

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Blindfold your partner

Give Instructions

Massage

Play Dress Up

Talk about fantasies

Play a Game

Dirty Talk

Try Out a New Position

Try out a Cock Ring

Try out a new location